The search for the "best family lawyer": a matter of balance and vision

If you are looking for the "best family lawyer" in Milan, it is because you have understood that family dynamics require an approach that goes far beyond a mere knowledge of the codes. In this delicate field, the "best" is not the one who wins a legal battle, but the one who helps the family find a new and sustainable balance. It is the professional who knows when it is time to mediate and when it is necessary to fight, who always places the children's interests above any strategy, and who possesses the sensitivity to manage not only the legal aspects but also the profound emotional and psychological implications.

The Bianucci Law Firm is committed to embodying this vision of family law. We do not define ourselves as the "best" in an absolute sense, but we offer ourselves as the expert and human guide who will support you with personalized strategies, protecting what is most precious to you and helping you navigate the complexity of relationships to build a more serene future.

Our approach as family lawyers: an integrated method for complete protection

Our work method is characterized by a holistic and strategic approach. A family lawyer knows well that every family unit is a unique universe and that there are no off-the-shelf solutions, but only paths to be built on a tailor-made basis, with patience, listening, and expertise.

• The paramount interest of minors as our guiding principle: Our first, and last, question in every case involving children is: what is their best interest? This is not a mere formula, but the cornerstone that guides our every decision. A conscious family lawyer works to reduce conflict, to protect children from any exploitation, and to ensure their inviolable right to a serene upbringing, maintaining a healthy and continuous bond with both parents. Our goal is to transform two spouses in crisis into two responsible parents.
• Mediation as a tool to build, not to yield: We are deeply convinced that a good agreement, reached with mutual awareness, is always preferable to a judgment imposed from above. For this reason, we dedicate time and energy to negotiation. A competent family lawyer is, first and foremost, a skilled negotiator, capable of facilitating dialogue, smoothing over differences, and assisting parties in identifying shared and, above all, stable solutions over time. Avoiding judicial confrontation means protecting future relationships, particularly parental ones, and safeguarding the dignity of all involved.
• Resolute defense to protect fundamental rights: The search for an agreement is never synonymous with weakness. When dialogue proves impossible – due to violence, serious risk to minors, or unreasonable positions that clearly harm one party's rights – our approach changes. Legal action then becomes firm, rigorous, and determined, with the aim of obtaining the maximum protection that the legal system can guarantee.
• A multidisciplinary approach for 360-degree protection: Family crises have legal, but also psychological, emotional, and financial implications. A modern family lawyer cannot overlook this complexity. For this reason, we rely on a trusted and consolidated network of external professionals – child psychologists, couple therapists, pedagogists, accountants, and investigative consultants. This integrated approach is fundamental for managing the emotional impact of the crisis, for providing the judge (and ourselves) with a complete picture for decision-making, and for ensuring a fair and strategic division of assets, even the most complex ones.

The areas of intervention of our firm: a comprehensive view of relationship law

The specialization of a family lawyer extends to all issues that may arise within a family unit, whether based on marriage or cohabitation.

Couple's crisis (married and unmarried):

We offer complete and highly specialized legal assistance for separations, divorces, and for the regulation of relationships between cohabiting partners, with meticulous and particular attention to the management of children (custody and maintenance) and the definition of all financial aspects.

Consensual and judicial proceedings:

We guide our clients in choosing the legal path most suited to their specific situation, explaining with transparency and clarity the phases, costs, and timelines of each option, from the fast and modern Assisted Negotiation to the more complex and articulated court cases.

Fundamental concepts of family law explained by Your family lawyer

Part of our role is to clarify, translating the technical language of the law into clear concepts that allow you to make informed and conscious decisions for your future and that of your loved ones.

Parental Responsibility and types of Child Custody:

We explain in detail what "parental responsibility" means today and the practical differences between shared custody (the rule in our system and the principle to be pursued), sole custody (an exception ordered for serious and proven reasons of parental inadequacy), and super-sole or reinforced custody (an even rarer and more drastic measure for cases of total lack of cooperation and serious prejudice to the minor).

Contribution to maintenance: an obligation of responsibility

We analyze the concrete criteria that the Court uses to establish child support payments.

This is not a mathematical equation, but a calculation based on a principle of proportionality that considers multiple factors: the child's actual needs (related to age and activities), the standard of living previously enjoyed, the time spent with each parent, their respective financial and asset resources, and the economic value of care and domestic tasks undertaken by each.

We also explain the essential difference between maintenance payments in separation (with a primarily welfare function and linked to the standard of living) and divorce payments, which are based on entirely different premises and purposes (welfare, equalization, and compensatory).

Protection of the family home: a fixed point for children's stability

We clarify how the right to live in the home is neither a reward nor a punishment, but a tool designed exclusively to protect the children's domestic environment, ensuring them the greatest possible stability during a period of great change.

This right is not linked to the ownership of the property and ends when the children achieve economic independence.